Welcome Simplicity! Bye Bye Complexity!

The year 2013 is here. One of my friends asked me what my new year resolution is.

My spontaneous reaction was, as in many previous years to start talking about all the things I would want to start doing. But before I could say these words, I realized that nothing has stopped me before from doing these things. I questioned myself, then, why couldn’t I do these things in 2012. Was anything wrong with 2012? NO was the answer. As a working mother of three small kids, I know I have my constraints and challenges. All of a sudden, because 2013 is here, my constraints and challenges are not going to go away. Why should I add the burden of New Year Resolutions to my already strained mind and body.

Then, should I give up on my goals? NO is the answer. I will still pursue my goals. But not as goals, only as dreams and visions. I am going to include one small action to be taken everyday into my schedule. Work through it. Once I am comfortable with this new schedule, add one small action into the schedule. Take time to get comfortable with it.

This way, I want to rid my life of stress and complexity. Welcome simplicity and serenity. Be more gentle and kind to myself. Thereby, being gentle and kind to my kids, my family and to the people around in my world.

Leadership is within all of us!

We all are leaders of our lives. We acknowledge it or not. It is there right inside us..

Many a times, we are afraid to acknowledge that we have it in us…

  • to make the difference in the world
  • to make the difference in our lives
  • to make the difference in our loved ones’ life
  • to go live in the change that gives us satisfaction. As humans, we are afraid of change…

we need to learn to embrace change. And the change is continuously changing. Hence, the need to continually learn the new change and move through it arises for human beings. This has been the basis of evolution of mankind.

  1. John Adair said it well when he said “We all have it (Leadership) within us when the situation calls and the time comes.”                                                                                                                                                                                     Think about that one situation of crisis in your life when you rose up to the situation. That is why, panic is good sometimes. It triggers the life saving system in us and makes us do things we wouldn’t do normally.                                                                                                                                                                          What if we learn to take decisions and implement them without saving our energy only for crisis situations. Enable the leadership switch in us to work everyday, every moment of our lives, and yes, we have the life we always wanted…
  2. Robin Sharma said “Be a Leader without title”                                                                                                               Isn’t it one more reason why we stand back and watch. Because we donot have the title, and so it is not time for us to demonstrate leadership. Why dont we demonstrate leadership without waiting for the title to come, our life, and so to say, our work-Life would be totally different.
  3. We are afraid we would also become materialistic like our bosses?                                                                                                                             Are our bosses materialistic? Really? I dont think so. They are only more committed to organisation’s goals. We are feeling bad deep down that we are not as clear as they are about what they want from life and work. It is time to seek clarity in our lives, about our vision, our dreams and about every moment that we spend everyday. Once we are clear, we are the happy children of the universe continuously moving towards improving our life